Just like my friendship from ‘Mere Misunderstanding’ You need to understand that people were made the way they were made. Don’t try and change them. Not in a friendship, not in a romantic relationship. No matter how hard it all is, no matter how much you care. If you try and change someone, then there is tension in the relationship and everyone gets hurt. Love me for me, take me as I am. If you can’t do that, then this friendship, this relationship cannot last. It’s the hardest words we can say, but the truest.